Even if you don’t want to, wish your mom a “Happy Mother’s Day” anyway

Many people tell me that they don’t talk to their mothers and that they don’t wish their moms a Happy Mother’s Day. The reasons vary from how she wasn’t a good mother to how you got into an argument that has extended throughout the years.

I understand that the mother-child (mother-adult child) relationship can be complicated, strained, and maybe even severely damaged. Perhaps it’s her fault or maybe it’s your fault. Most likely, both of you played a part in the damaged relationship. Maybe you talk to your mom only when necessary or you haven’t spoken to her in years.

The hurt and pain still continues. She may still not be the kind of mom you want her to be. Maybe she’s not even a good mom at all. Perhaps you’re not the best son or daughter. None of this matters.

What really matters on Mother’s Day is that you simply wish her a Happy Mother’s Day. She is your mom. She did carry you for nine months (give or take) and she did have some contribution in your life regardless of what you may think. Because she is your mother, she deserves respect. Period.

Don’t wait until it’s too late. Don’t wait until she makes changes. Don’t wait until she deserves it. Don’t wait for whatever reason you think you need to wait on for you to talk to your mother. This is the one mom that you truly have and this is the one day that has been set aside for her.

Go ahead. Take that step with no judgement, excuses, attitude, bad memories, etc. Leave it all behind when you call to say, “Happy Mother’s Day, Mom.”

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About Stephane Manos

Stephane Manos has developed several online companies. While working as an online entrepreneur, he fell in love with the sales aspect and recruited some of the best clients and affiliates the companies have ever had. The fun, he found was in building the connections and relationships. One of Stephane's top qualities is being able to motivate. He found a passion in motivating others which in return motivated him. Happy colleagues and clients would send word-of-mouth referrals and increase traffic to his online businesses. Teamwork is something that Stephane promotes. The focus is not on self or individuals but in working as a team to reach the same goals. It is his role as a leader to lead the team by example. Currently, his interest is in real estate investments and financial investments. He is now looking into emerging markets such as the Middle East. He also believes some of the better deals can be found in certain parts of the United States. Many distressed buyers are looking to liquidate. Developing new online businesses, purchasing commercial and residential real estate, and developing rentals has led him to travel around the world. Stephane Manos contributes a portion of his time and earnings to charitable associations and philanthropic groups. His charities are: -Children's Telethon -AHEPA brotherhood and Shriners -REVIVRE Bipolar Support Assocation
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